tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3897942615785661241.post5283743168391204642..comments2009-05-13T08:40:36.299-07:00Comments on Just Amy: Where Are They...?Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02166387993856423280noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3897942615785661241.post-48714529252259309392009-02-03T09:35:00.000-08:002009-02-03T09:35:00.000-08:00I'm going to be blunt and hope you are accepting t...I'm going to be blunt and hope you are accepting that this advice comes from a loving place. <BR/><BR/>We all teach the people in our lives how to treat us. You need to take responsibility for the fact that you've allowed your husband to be a selfish, cheating, slim ball while still remaining in your life. You need to get help, so that you will value yourself enough to ensure this will never happen again. Your goal should be to get to a place where you wouldn't hesitate for a second to leave ANY relationship that proves to be disrespectful on an ongoing basis. There are certain 'deal killers' in a marriage and your man has committed a whole bunch!<BR/><BR/> Your husband hates himself, thus there is no way he can possibly love anyone else. You remaining in this relationship is not only extremely harmful to you, it is to him as well. Pack your things today and get the hell out. This is not to say there isn't hope for your marriage. If your husband decides to look within (I mean REALLY look within) and work on himself with professional help, then some day you may be able to have a relationship....but, in the meantime, you have to get away from this toxitity. And, you can't be together while you are both getting the professional help necessary.<BR/><BR/>Good luck and please keep us posted.<BR/><BR/>LaurieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3897942615785661241.post-27726670412189213672009-02-02T16:09:00.000-08:002009-02-02T16:09:00.000-08:00The heads on one side of the coin has tails on the...The heads on one side of the coin has tails on the other. Sometimes we just take what comes up. My wife and I have been married since 1955. It will be 54 years this July. A long time that flies past.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for taking a look at my hawk painting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com