tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3897942615785661241.post1370195833575932025..comments2009-05-13T08:40:36.299-07:00Comments on Just Amy: Just Keep Breathing...Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02166387993856423280noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3897942615785661241.post-59365510258628611012009-02-03T17:27:00.000-08:002009-02-03T17:27:00.000-08:00Hi, I read your blog yesterday (clicked over from ...Hi, I read your blog yesterday (clicked over from Harlan's blog) and very nearly commented. But the fact is, I wasn't sure what to say to you. What can I say (a complete stranger) to you that would make a difference? You are obviously a person in a lot of pain and your husband sounds just awful. From the outside looking in, I can't believe that you would try to go on with him after he not only cheated, but made babies with TWO different women. <BR/><BR/>But who am I? Just some stranger who has nothing to lose by saying that. <BR/><BR/>But seriously, Amy, you sound like a smart enough woman and you already know how outrageous your story sounds. You already know that you are married to a man who has no respect for you ... or your marriage. You already know that he's not going to change just because you wish he would. <BR/><BR/>The fact that you've never mentioned in 16 years of marriage that you don't like football tells a lot. He's such a selfish, controlling person that he never NOTICED? I hate football and believe me - everybody knows that. haha<BR/><BR/>I am going to offer advice and you can do with it what you want. Try not to use "Hunter" as your excuse to leave. You don't need one. You don't have to fall in love to be justified in leaving this man. He's given you enough damned good reasons without involving another man. If Hunter is a man you've interested in, divorce your husband first. You'll have a clear conscious and you won't start a new relationship with that hanging over your head. In fact, consider going into therapy before you start another relationship with a man. Good luck! And I will be reading. ... <BR/><BR/>BeckyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com